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The marriage builder : a blueprint for couples and counselors / Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr.

By: Publication details: Grand Rapids, Mich. : Zondervan Pub. House, ©1982.Description: 143 pages : illustrations ; 23 cmContent type:
  • text
Media type:
  • unmediated
Carrier type:
  • volume
ISBN:
  • 0310225809
  • 9780310225805
  • 0310225817
  • 9780310225812
Subject(s): DDC classification:
  • 248.8/4 19
LOC classification:
  • BV835 .C7 1982
Contents:
Oneness: what it is and why it is important -- Spirit oneness: who meets my needs? -- Should oneness: manipulation or ministry? -- Soul oneness: "What do I do when I'm angry?" -- Body oneness: physical pleasure with personal meaning -- Building block 1: grace -- Building block 2: commitment -- Building block 3: acceptance.
Summary: Psychologist Larry Crabb cuts to the heart of the biblical view of marriage: the "one-flesh" relationship. He argues convincingly that the deepest needs of human personality -- security and significance -- ultimately cannot be satisfied by a marriage partner. We need to turn to the Lord, rather than our spouse, to satisfy our needs. This frees both partners for "soul oneness," a commitment to minister to our spouse's needs rather than manipulating them to meet our own needs. With "soul oneness" comes renewed "body oneness," where couples enjoy sexual pleasure as an expression and outgrowth of a personal relationship.
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Item type Current library Call number Status Date due Barcode
Books Academic Resource Center at Levitt General Stacks (LOWER Level) BV 835 .C7 1982 (Browse shelf(Opens below)) Available 195560

Includes bibliographical references and index.

Oneness: what it is and why it is important -- Spirit oneness: who meets my needs? -- Should oneness: manipulation or ministry? -- Soul oneness: "What do I do when I'm angry?" -- Body oneness: physical pleasure with personal meaning -- Building block 1: grace -- Building block 2: commitment -- Building block 3: acceptance.

Psychologist Larry Crabb cuts to the heart of the biblical view of marriage: the "one-flesh" relationship. He argues convincingly that the deepest needs of human personality -- security and significance -- ultimately cannot be satisfied by a marriage partner. We need to turn to the Lord, rather than our spouse, to satisfy our needs. This frees both partners for "soul oneness," a commitment to minister to our spouse's needs rather than manipulating them to meet our own needs. With "soul oneness" comes renewed "body oneness," where couples enjoy sexual pleasure as an expression and outgrowth of a personal relationship.

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